I work with ambitious, high-performing women who are ready to move from anxious attachment and high-functioning anxiety into secure, steady relationships. This may include entering a new relationship, navigating challenges in an existing partnership, or re-entering dating after a breakup — all without sacrificing your drive, intelligence, or edge.

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YOU’RE NOT TOO MUCH-You’re activated.

You lead teams. You manage complexity. You execute at a high level. Yet when intimacy deepens, something shifts.

 

You may notice:

• Relief when you’re single or time alone

• Anxiety when your partner or relationship feels emotionally close

• Overanalyzing communication or partner responses

• Urges to seek reassurance — then regret it

 

This isn’t immaturity. It isn’t weakness. It’s attachment — and it’s treatable.

 

THE HIGH-FUNCTIONING ATTACHMENT PATTERN-The Pattern Successful Women Rarely Talk About

Career success rewards:

• Control

• Competence

• Emotional containment

 

Secure love requires:

• Vulnerability

• Regulation during uncertainty

• Mutual emotional dependence

 

Ambition taught you independence and performance. It didn’t teach your nervous system how to feel safe in connection — in dating, or within a committed partnership.

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HOW I HELP-Secure Attachment Without Losing Your Edge

​​I specialize in working with high-achieving, financially independent women who want to move from anxious attachment to secure relational patterns.

 

My clients include:

• College-educated professionals

• Leaders, executives, entrepreneurs, or pursuing advanced degrees

• Women accustomed to being “the strong one”

• Both single women and those navigating long-term partnerships​
   

The Secure Relational Habits Framework

My work is grounded in a structured, attachment-informed clinical model designed specifically for high-achieving women navigating anxious attachment and relational anxiety.

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Awareness
Clarifying your attachment patterns, relational triggers, and the ways high performance intersects with intimacy.

 

Regulation
Developing nervous system stability so anxiety no longer dictates communication, decision-making, or emotional responses.

 

Repatterning
Replacing fear-based or over-functioning strategies with steady, secure relational behaviors.

 

Alignment
Strengthening discernment, boundaries, and the ability to engage in relationships that are mutual and emotionally available.

 

These capacities are developed and reinforced throughout treatment. The emphasis remains on internal regulation and relational pattern change — not managing individual relationship dynamics.

 

This is structured psychotherapy focused on lasting attachment security.

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​Secure love doesn’t require you to be less ambitious; it requires you to feel safe being fully yourself.

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ABOUT ME:-A Calm, Structured Approach to Depth Work

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I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), National Certified Counselor (NCC), and Certified Clinical Anxiety Treatment Professional (CCATP).

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​​My practice is intentionally focused on helping ambitious women develop secure attachment through attachment science, anxiety treatment, and nervous system regulation.

I maintain a small caseload — no more than 3–4 clients per day — so each client receives thoughtful, depth-oriented care.​​

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​Secure love doesn’t require you to be less ambitious; it requires you to feel safe being fully yourself.​​​​​

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Phone: 214-785-0959

Email: info@tricounselingtx.com

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